Why do we suffer always? Why do we cry on others? Why do we get irritate?
One answer to all above questions is our wish. Yes, We always make a wish and try harder to make it in reality. We make another wish after fulfilling the earlier wish with lot of effort. There is no end to our wish and hence we are always struggling and unhappy forever. We never get satisfied as we always want grow further. But we never think about what we are doing.
We think about buying house when our neighbor bought a house. We think about buying car seeing others. We always think other person is happy and follow the other person. But in reality no one is ever happy. Even Warren Buffet is not happy after earning more than 1.5 L crores of rupees. Why? Because he was running behind money and finally realized that money is not everything and donated 80% of his property to bill gates foundation.
Poor man always aims for earning money and he uses all possible ways to make it true. Finally he become very rich but he loses his happiness and realizes money will not make a person happy.
If money can make a person happy, no foreigner run behind all our so called babas thinking that babas help them to find happiness.
Are babas happy? No. No one is happy.
Why?
One answer to all above questions is our wish. Yes, We always make a wish and try harder to make it in reality. We make another wish after fulfilling the earlier wish with lot of effort. There is no end to our wish and hence we are always struggling and unhappy forever. We never get satisfied as we always want grow further. But we never think about what we are doing.
We think about buying house when our neighbor bought a house. We think about buying car seeing others. We always think other person is happy and follow the other person. But in reality no one is ever happy. Even Warren Buffet is not happy after earning more than 1.5 L crores of rupees. Why? Because he was running behind money and finally realized that money is not everything and donated 80% of his property to bill gates foundation.
Poor man always aims for earning money and he uses all possible ways to make it true. Finally he become very rich but he loses his happiness and realizes money will not make a person happy.
If money can make a person happy, no foreigner run behind all our so called babas thinking that babas help them to find happiness.
Are babas happy? No. No one is happy.
Why?
Because of his wish was not fulfilled. A baba aims to become great master and achieve more and more and he always suffer that he is not a great master yet and still need to improve. Similarly a poor man aims to become rich and he sacrifices his relations and values. A student aim for top rank.
Why everyone is aiming big?
We never think about our achievements and be grateful. We never think about our family how blessed we are. We never think positively about our friends or relatives how good they are. We always complain about others because our wishes are never ending.
Why everyone is aiming big?
We never think about our achievements and be grateful. We never think about our family how blessed we are. We never think positively about our friends or relatives how good they are. We always complain about others because our wishes are never ending.
What is the solution?
We all should understand that our life is independent and unique. Each person's life is different from others. So there is no point in thinking that we should be greater than our neighbors.
We need to cut down our wishes on daily basis. Process is as follows.
We need to analyze what are our new wishes on that day and start imagine that all our wishes come true.
Imagination should be like real and we should feel that the wish is fulfilled.
Eg: If our wish is to have a big house with all amenities, then we should imagine the house with clear picture and think that the house is constructed by us and we should feel that our dream has come true and should tell ourselves that the wish is fulfilled and need not to think about it anymore.
This process helps us to not to run behind our goals and aims but enjoy each and every moment of our life with happiness.
We all should understand that our life is independent and unique. Each person's life is different from others. So there is no point in thinking that we should be greater than our neighbors.
We need to cut down our wishes on daily basis. Process is as follows.
We need to analyze what are our new wishes on that day and start imagine that all our wishes come true.
Imagination should be like real and we should feel that the wish is fulfilled.
Eg: If our wish is to have a big house with all amenities, then we should imagine the house with clear picture and think that the house is constructed by us and we should feel that our dream has come true and should tell ourselves that the wish is fulfilled and need not to think about it anymore.
This process helps us to not to run behind our goals and aims but enjoy each and every moment of our life with happiness.
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